Thursday, September 18, 2008

Oral or Not Oral?

Ok, so this is a question for both PlayMates & PusSays and is a spin-off of the previous posting.


When and/or who is deserving of oral? I used to think that it was suppose to be reserved for those (men or women) that truly meant something to you. But as I got older, it became a very important part of fourplay. I mean, it gets me aroused suckn a brotha off (or woman on occasion). But am I potentilly ruining the "party favor" if I gift to too many?







Furthermore, what is good oral? Recently, I stumbled upon an ex. We got to talking and reminscing and I found out that he refers to me as "Queen of Head" to his friends (at the same time he has never divulged my true identity). So I'm thinkin, Queen is a very royal title and should not ever be taken lightly. What category does that put me in?



So ...



1. When is oral appropriate?



2. Who is deserving of oral?



3. What is your oral nickname (if applicable).



4. What is GOOD oral?

Suck/Eat on that!

6 comments:

maylady84 said...

Well for me... oral is ALWAYS appropriate! I agree with you...giving head excites me probably just as the much as the dude receiving it! It took me forever to get started, but once I did for the first time and saw how much the dude loved it. It was a damn near daily occurance! LOL

as for the nickname: the 1st guy i gave head to nicknamed me "sloppy joe". Lets just say that after a while I really got into it. he likes it to be all messy! LOL

I think that good oral is 49% techniques and 51% passion. You gotta love doing it! The person receiving can always feel that heat!

Damn it now I gotta make a phone call!!

The Second Sixty-Eight said...

1. When is oral appropriate?
Whenever the mood strikes.


2. Who is deserving of oral?
Anybody you like enough to give it to. Or receive it from...


3. What is your oral nickname (if applicable).
Nickname? Hmmm... I don't know. Might need some help with that one...


4. What is GOOD oral?
The kind that makes you want more. Or the kind that gets you off!

clnmike said...

1- All times.

2- I used to think it was only for that special women, but hell I am older now, but it is definitely after a period of knowing each other.

3- I'll say Sloppy Joe

Anonymous said...

I think that giving head is all about power. I love to do it at anytime and anywhere but the only person that can get it my FWB or my man. My FWB gave me a nickname slurpy

CapCity said...

According to Sistah Vanessa Fraction good head has to have PURPOSE! We can't keep suckin' dick for dick suckin' sake! LOL!

Anonymous said...

To whom it may apply


There is nothing wrong with single adults writing about sexual experiences or sexual fetishes for that matter, but it’s a completely different story when gown ass men and women that have significant others are online doing it. It’s down right degrading and down right disrespectful For example, a guy that has an old lady has no business on the web talking about how he loves to eat p#ssy. What he loves to do sexually is strictly his and his better halfs business! Whether his telling the truth or just shooting the breeze just to get a laugh form a stranger. It is so disrespectful, and it makes his chick look like a damn fool. We as individual have to learn that the things that come out of our mouths affect the ones that love us the most. How would you feel if your wife or future wife was online saying that she loves to give head because it turns her on and that she has even givin head to a few chicks? Do you really think that she sat back to think whether or not her man would ever read that story that she wrote? Or better yet the part about her and the ex reminiscing about the good head that she used to give him! Damn, if you were her man, wouldn’t you begin to wonder just how many people she has givin head to? True enough the past may be the past, but if that’s truly the case, then why bring it up again to total strangers? There is nothing cute about putting your sex life on the web, and damn sure isn’t cute when you have someone at home! There is a thin line between love and hate, and a lot of females and males dance around this line as if its some type of joke. Lives are torn and people get hurt physically and mentally! No one wants to be the guy that is the butt of the joke when he and his chick are out in public because “she likes to give head” . What female wants to be at a restaurant eating and the waitress keeps staring at her man because” he has a ten inch penis and what all his cant do with his d*ck, his mouth will take up the slack”! Or even worse, one of your
home girls/homeboys read it and tells you what was written and everybody in the neighborhood has read it! You would flip out and probably catch a charge over some nonsense that could have easily been avoided. To all the “taken” people, you should be ashamed of yourselves. Single people only answer to themselves and god . Couples on the other hand have to answer to each other!