Tuesday, September 7, 2010

TOP 10 THINGS I LIKE ABOUT SEX

10 THINGS I LIKE ABOUT SEX


10. The intoxicating afterglow - There is nothing more satisfying than good sex and the feeling that comes the first few minutes after you've finished is priceless.

9. The anticipation - the moments leading up to an encounter, whether you know its coming days in advance or minutes in advance, are exciting. The build-up itself is a turn on. Sort of like that 11:45pm on Christmas Eve feeling when you know you can open one present at midnight.

8. The simultaneous satisfaction off all five senses - Unless I'm missing something, sex is the only thing that allows you to satisfy all five senses (touch, taste, smell, hearing and sight) at the same time.

7. The trust factor - Next to a child and her hand in marriage, her body is the best gift a woman can give and the trust that comes with her giving you that is not to be betrayed (at least by me).

6. The vulnerability - Sex seems to be the only time that we don't care what we look like naked. Some of us don't like to look at ourselves naked in the mirror, but when we have sex, we allow someone else to see us and all of our inperfections.

5. Feeling comfortable in my own skin. - having someone who accepts you as is is another turn on and increases the comfort level that I have, not just with myself being naked, but with my partner as well.

4. The ability to satisfy a woman - anyone who has done it knows why this is so high.

3. The foreplay - Going back to a womans body being a gift, having the privilege of exploring a womans body and showing her how much you appreciate it is a rush, especially if you're someone who puts his partners satisfaction ahead of his own.

2. The escape from reality - whether its 5 minutes, an hour or an all night encounter with multiple episodes, when you're having sex, nothing else really matters. You are in your own private world with your partner. There are no cares and no problems. It's a temporary utopia.

1. The connection I have with my partner. - The physical enjoyment of sex is intensified multiple times for me when I have an emotional connection with my partner. Doesn't necessarily mean we have to be in a relationship, but it does mean that it has to be someone that I care for and who I have meaningful feelings for. Sex for the sake of having sex is a waste of time in my book.

4 comments:

Tiffany said...

All true, except #8--- some really good potato chips.

Tiffany
Peace, Love and Chocolate

Monique said...

::Tips my glass to you::

Beautifully written.

Organized Noise said...

Redbonegirl97: You got me on that one.

Monique: Thanks

Babz Rawls Ivy said...

Hhmmm I have nothing to add, except an exceptional glass of champagne :)