I know there are a few shadow-dancing lurkers who are fascinated by, but uncomfortable with, or downright disgusted by our flagrant use of PUSSY. Well, below are a few words & terms I have issues with.
It Sucks -or- U Cock-sucker: For many of us this is a wonderfully engaging & intimate activity ... the fact that these are used to describe an undesirable thing baffles me. I DO understand that no one wants their business yelled in the streets (hence, the
insult of
public usage of cock-sucker), but that can be solved by only engaging with discretionary partners who will
lovingly call u a cock-sucker or tell u that u suck while u DO so: as in "U sexy muthaphuckin' cock-sucker" - or- "Oooh baby! U suh- uck...." all just prior to tremblin' of course;-)
This Blows: see above;-)
You're such a Pussy or a Dick: I
have a Pussy that I love DEARLY! I've yet to meet a Dick that I hate (now, sum Dicks are more appealing & agreeable than others - but they're all cute at the very least;-). Again, I am baffled that these are terms used as insults.
Wife-Beater: I
just learned this in 2000. I remember when I first heard it I was like "What is she
talking about?" Wife-beaters were undesirable fat slobs. We called the shirts Tank Tops & I'm pretty sure that's what the packaging states when you purchase them. I
refuse to use that term! As a visual person, the imagery alone is
awful!
Any Terminology U disagree with or just don't GET?
P.S.
While we are partners I take full Grown Woman responsibility for my own posts & thoughts. My opinions are mine: in no way do I speak for Sistah Babz, so don't throw tomatoes at her if U disagree with me;-).
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