I know there are a few shadow-dancing lurkers who are fascinated by, but uncomfortable with, or downright disgusted by our flagrant use of PUSSY. Well, below are a few words & terms I have issues with.It Sucks -or- U Cock-sucker: For many of us this is a wonderfully engaging & intimate activity ... the fact that these are used to describe an undesirable thing baffles me. I DO understand that no one wants their business yelled in the streets (hence, the insult of public usage of cock-sucker), but that can be solved by only engaging with discretionary partners who will lovingly call u a cock-sucker or tell u that u suck while u DO so: as in "U sexy muthaphuckin' cock-sucker" - or- "Oooh baby! U suh- uck...." all just prior to tremblin' of course;-)
This Blows: see above;-)
You're such a Pussy or a Dick: I have a Pussy that I love DEARLY! I've yet to meet a Dick that I hate (now, sum Dicks are more appealing & agreeable than others - but they're all cute at the very least;-). Again, I am baffled that these are terms used as insults.
Wife-Beater: I just learned this in 2000. I remember when I first heard it I was like "What is she talking about?" Wife-beaters were undesirable fat slobs. We called the shirts Tank Tops & I'm pretty sure that's what the packaging states when you purchase them. I refuse to use that term! As a visual person, the imagery alone is awful!
Any Terminology U disagree with or just don't GET?
P.S.
While we are partners I take full Grown Woman responsibility for my own posts & thoughts. My opinions are mine: in no way do I speak for Sistah Babz, so don't throw tomatoes at her if U disagree with me;-).
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11 comments:
lol..interesting post cap... ;-)
as far as being a PUSSY or DICK, i see it, A PUSSY from a guy's perspective, in one (male) not being able to take on a challenge whole-heartedly as in the alpha-MALE domination or HE-man, bowing down to some WOMEN'S or "society" view of WOMEN as being weak, frilly or giddy in circumstances. WE men tend to overemphasize our strength to overpower a woman rationale...to wit, it may not make sense in a WOMAN'S mind but to us guys, were stronger, faster and more physical we can beat you down; it's been that way since the caveman days. and we've all experienced it from our childhood.
example:
i've always wanted to own/ride a motorcycle, but i've been a PUSSY to owe up to the challenge (not knockin' women riders, but bike riders are male dominated)...or on the same token, i need to get my DICK up to ride one of those things.
(dick-up meaning "hard", "stiff" or "rugged" in the physical capacity like an erection to handle a pussy.........well)
there are other analogies, like dick (stubborn or asshole-minded) dickhead & pussywhipped.
wife beater: that's kinda funny because i didn't hear of the term until i moved to NYC in 1999. short sleeved t-shirts with the sleeves cut of at the edge of the shoulder. why wife beater? because it gave the hubby arms ass-whalin' power without the sleeve to whup up on wifey when she fuggz up, hence wife beater. commonplace among the italians, irish, hispanic/latinos, afro-americans. haven't seen many WB t-shirts down south, from VA on down, but many roll up their short sleeves, like a sign of hard worker and also to hide a joint or two.
;-P~~~
Ummmm, Lance - thanx for that lesson & insight, but err, ummm - i already understand the WHYs & ROOTS of those terms - I still DON'T LIKE IT ONE BIT! & I'll nevah use the term wife-beater: Grrrrr! If THAT ain't some self-fulfillin' BULLSHYT! Wonder if our language has anything to do with the increase in domestic violence? Yea, I know domestic violence is not new - but sadly, it's not getting any better & seems to even be on the rise: WTF???
As U know your language dictates your life: the BIBLE says "In the beginning was the word." U can't go back any farther than that. ;-)
i'on kno cap, women ain't the PUSSIES they used to be...docile, shy, like scared bunny wabbits.
nowadays, with women, you say/do the wrong thing at the wrong time and you'll end up the fuck'd up with a quickness! ;-x
I have to agree with you Sistah Cap. I don't see how people find the negativity in those words.
Lance - LOL! uhh, quiet as it was kept - women nevah WERE what "control freak" men wanted to believe;-). just ask hot-grits Al or any number of men through-out history who felt the "docile" wrath! LOL!
Kayos - & i knew u'd be at home here;-)
I'm not offended by much. Prefer to say pussy opposed to vagina. dick to penis.
lol @ you and wife beater. I say A-shirt :)
Just tryn 2 find out how I can get on as a contributor. If anyone knows plz hit me back.
Tina-B aka Undeniably...Deep
http://tinabthewriter.blogspot.com
what about blow me
P Beauty - not much offends me if it's not "slung" at me;-). I agree with your choices, too;-).
U Deep - i'll send u an invite & uh, can i put in a request for u to repost your: Weapon of Persuasion here? ;-)
T-Dawg - long as it's asked nicely;-). LOL!
I love My Sister Capcity! Pchats is designed to take back the word pussy and give it a place of reverence in our language.
Thats it.
I have absolutely no problem with saying sucks or blows as an adjective! Especially since I use neither term when referring to the sweet science of mouth to genital pleasuring!
But I see where you are coming from on the others...
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