Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts

Sunday, November 8, 2009

World Peace anyone?


Some men know that a light touch of the tongue, running from a woman's toes to her ears, lingering in the softest way possible in various places in between, given often enough and sincerely enough, would add immeasurably to world peace.

Monday, April 6, 2009

To vibrate or not to vibrate that is the question

This is an IM chat I had with a friend of mine last week:

Me: while penetration is good, it's only part of sexual experience for most women

Him: most?

Me: there's foreplay, feeling a man on you, cuddling, the smell/touch/taste of a man

Him:
oh okay

Me:
yes, I know several woman who don't climax during penetration, do so during oral or anal sex

Him:
i have never met a woman who didnt climax from vaginal sex.
i heard they're out there
my heart goes out to them

Me:
yes, they are, I know white & Black women who don't get it vaginally

Him:
it's mental
the key is unlocking it
which starts way before u get down sexually

Me:
true, once I learned that, it was on

Him:
there are instances where u can just bang the bottom outta dem drawz
but it truly is a mental affair

Me:
yes, that would be on way of putting it LOL
B4 I invested in my vibrator collection, I used to be able to climax w/o touching myself
I remember talking to frnd & she was amazed by that, it seemed normal to me

Him:
how do u do that?

Me:
I've always found touching myself to be distracting if I'm alone
arms aren't long enuff LOL

Him:
and here i am thinking i helped.
u dont need me(n)
or any man

Me:
like I said, "BEFORE"

Him:
damn vibrator "collection"

Me:
now, I'm spoiled, need vibrator

Him:
i've destroyed many a vibrator in my day.

Me:
"and here i am thinking i helped. u dont need me(n)" I always want/need you
Y so violent, Y destroy??????????
is that really necessary

Him:
they didnt belong
i loathe them
they create a false sense of reality
i once had an "adult toy store" for a client

Me:
LOL

Him:
and the owner broke down the whole physiological aspect of "vibrators" specifically

Me:
it ain't that deep

Him:
and how they infiltrate the mental harmony that control pleasures

Me:
"infiltrate"

Him:
i knew women who wanted to incorporate it into lovemaking. "it'll be fun"
no, me inside u will be fun.
me inside u will be magic
me + vibrator is overkill.
some things are just meant 2 be analog

Me:
yes, this is one area where "IRL" is 99% always better

Brothas, do you share his feelings about vibrators?
Sistas, have you encountered similar situations/opinions?