Showing posts with label intercourse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label intercourse. Show all posts

Sunday, March 7, 2010

"They" say I'm a man

Rather, "they" say I fuck like one.

Having sex is instinctual, as natural as eating when I'm hungry and drinking when I'm thirsty. When did it get all confused with love? When did having sex with someone become equated with loving someone? Love is an emotion and intercourse is the act of procreating.

I have sex when I want to and with whom I want to. Does that make me less of a woman? Does that take away from my intelligence or accomplishments? Does that make me a whore or slut? This is how my sistas get messed, falsely believing if a man has sex with them, he loves them and them alone. Now, this is also my brothas responsibility because they tell untruths to get the pussy.

Men are rewarded for the number of notches on their belt and I'm chastised for mine. Why is there a double standard? Why are men studs and women wanton? Why can't I do what comes natural to every living creature on the planet without fear of societal recrimination? I want a reward for my expertise. If practice makes perfect, then, well you know where I'm going.

I fuck for the pure pleasure of it, not to exert power. Why do women think pussy = power? Why do men think dick = dominance? We are equal partners in providing pleasure to each other, no one greater or lesser than the other.

I remember a girlfriend telling me once, "Men are just using you." And I replied, "No, I'm getting as much pleasure as they are." What's wrong with my way of thinking? Is my thinking askew? If attitude is everything, then mine is fucking fantastic.

I don't fuck like a man. I fuck like Shannon, the wonderfully full-figured, thick lipped, long haired, carmel-colored sista I am.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Sex by any other name...

How many ways are there to say it?

  1. make love
  2. have intercourse
  3. fuck
  4. hit it
  5. boink
  6. consummate
  7. pork
  8. hook up
  9. have sex
  10. break off a piece
  11. doin' it; doin' the deed; doin' the nasty
  12. close the deal
  13. have relations
  14. "it"
  15. you know

Did I forget some? What do you call it?